Why is it that whenever I ask a question of *any* sort in this category, I'm accused of 'gay bashing'?

My thoughts are "ask what you'd like" only remember to into consideration the "guidelines" and that there are going to be people to cry "foul" for no other reason other than they can. You will never make everyone happy, and if you do, patent it and make a fortune with it. Live and live the thought we will all piss off someone some time and some day, don't take it personally.