Adivce about my hubby?

I am so sorry your life has come to this place. He as a man feels as though he should be the provider and take care of his family but due to the illness, he cannot. He probably feels less of a man for this. I've had experience with the other half and internet so I feel your pain. Maybe you can find things that you absolutely need his help with; start with small things like opening jars and then lifting things. I know you have experience doing this all yourself but it will slowly get him back to normalcy. Find ways to make him do anything at all. If he feels needed and necessary, it will help with the depression. He may need to seek medication as well. Good luck.