A yahoo answer said a disturbed person is one who is socially awkward&depressed. Well if that is the cause is?

it worth this person living if they can't live a normal productive life. And don't say meds are solution when every one under the sun tried makes it worse. Also what's a person to do if they have a rich mom that constantly robs money from a broke struggling many years person. To top offnearly midlife &still haven't found my niche. Really what can change now only a shomiracle to make things better. So can someone,anyone find a good solution to this dilemma of a miserable life. So thanks if there's any concerns or good tidbits